Temperature

Everyone is a poet when they are in love. The air will seem to smell sweeter. Your soul will seem to be able to feel the warmth even when it's snowing cold. Your heart will seem to be intoxicated with overwhelming happiness and peace.

How magnificent is this feeling that God gave this precious gift to each and everyone of us. We ought to appreciate the simplest things in life, as it is in those simple things, that we will feel pure happiness, without corruption, ulterior motives or hatred. Just pure child-like happiness.

It is indeed understood that no one said life is ever easy. Monetary issues will set in. Hurdles to overcome. Any sort of relationship(s) will be broken. People come and go.

When the time comes for anyone to feel dejected in love, not any simple or flowery words will be able to elaborate or portray the pain he/she is going through.

Getting hurt is inevitable. Even though the only person whom is your happiness, will hurt you. Sometimes we might take one another for granted. At times, we might be too demanding or unreasonable.

People will then ask, why pursue a relationship when it does not help you to be a better person? Most importantly, why be with a person when you are not able to be who you really are? Unable to share your dreams and goals in life?

Maybe it is just love and stupidity.

I learnt it through the hard way.

I have learnt that love is a relationship between two people and two people only.

I learnt that problems which is able to be dealt with by ourselves, we should face it together, hand in hand.

The more you complain about your partner to your friends, the more the problem isn't going to resolved by itself. Furthermore, how can you expect your family and friends to have a good impression on your partner when all you showered onto them are your partner's negative traits?

When any problems arises in my relationship, I have learnt only to confide with true friends whom will truly understand from a mutual perspective. Or if not, just bear with it on my own.

I believe everyone is an angel in their own way. Problems are just a way to learn more about ourselves, our partner and our ability to resolve it. Problems appears and vanishes. Everyone handles each and every problem differently in their own way. At times, we may handle incorrectly but that does not define us. We all are still learning to live this life in our own way.

Give everyone a chance and not deem him/her as someone "bad" based on what you hear.

God's every single creation of us have His reasons for it.

He wants us to experience sadness so we will know what is happiness.

He wants us to experience hatred so we will know what is love.

He wants us to experience loss of any relationship, so we will know how to cherish.

He wants us to experience stress, so we will know how to relax.

He wants us to experience rejection so we know how to give everyone else a chance.

Be a poet in your own way. Sprinkle words of positivity in your life. Write it with your favorite coloured pen. Allow God to guide your strokes as you journey through the lines of every page.